I think people typically have most of the love languages but just ranked in order of importance.
Here's my ranking...
1.) Physical touch - I love to snuggle and be snuggled. and if that leads to more then so be it ;) I show my affection by touching
2.) Companionship - I love to have fun and do things together this is definitely a "must have" for me in my relationships
3.) Words of affirmation - I like to hear that my partner appreciates me but I can live without it if #1 and #2 above are going well
4.) Gifts - I like to give meaningful gifts. Not so much in the realm of store bought stuff. This is really very low on my priority list though. I can take it or leave it to be honest.
5.) Acts of service - This is on the very bottom of my list. I'm independent to a fault. I ask for very little in terms of someone doing things for me. I tend to get a bit annoyed if my partner uses this love language as a way for me to prove to them that I care. If I'm honest, this feels like servitude and I don't like it. I'm not a fan.
