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How did you finally forgive yourself when something made you feel guilty?

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SW-User
If you were a child when things went nips up, it helps to remember that you were a kid - and if you were a kid with shit/no guidance, then forgive yourself for that. Even if you still hold yourself to the standard that you really should have known since you knew deep down. I mean fuck, we're only human. It's not this big mystical thing...there's sort of not that much to us in a way.

Sometimes them's the breaks. You try to accept and move on. Not always that neat and tidy, though.
TessDun · 41-45, F
@SW-User This is one of the best answers too, making a lot of sense. Thank you. Maybe one major cause of my frustration is thinking I could not make mistake or lose control so it makes me beat myself up when someone is genuinely sad because of me. But yah I’m only human and agreed that I have to accept that it happens and try to move on
SW-User
@TessDun Thanks. Yeah it's hard to make sense of everything while it's still going on. We're not actually psychics no matter how many fears and nightmare scenarios we might anticipate.