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SW-User
If you were a child when things went nips up, it helps to remember that you were a kid - and if you were a kid with shit/no guidance, then forgive yourself for that. Even if you still hold yourself to the standard that you really should have known since you knew deep down. I mean fuck, we're only human. It's not this big mystical thing...there's sort of not that much to us in a way.
Sometimes them's the breaks. You try to accept and move on. Not always that neat and tidy, though.
Sometimes them's the breaks. You try to accept and move on. Not always that neat and tidy, though.
TessDun · 41-45, F
@SW-User This is one of the best answers too, making a lot of sense. Thank you. Maybe one major cause of my frustration is thinking I could not make mistake or lose control so it makes me beat myself up when someone is genuinely sad because of me. But yah I’m only human and agreed that I have to accept that it happens and try to move on

SW-User
@TessDun Thanks. Yeah it's hard to make sense of everything while it's still going on. We're not actually psychics no matter how many fears and nightmare scenarios we might anticipate.