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Is talking to a stranger already a way of leading them on?

I was just new to this platform when someone suddenly messaged me. He was kind and very, very appreciative of me---even just minutes after his first message. I could sense the "simping" but I let it go. I talked to him and shared with him some things about me for the sake of returning the "favor" of him sharing to me. At that time, I had plenty of time to reply right away but the next day, I became busy (because you cant expect someone to be in here 24/7, can you?) Anyway, he sounded hurt in his last messages and seemed to imply that I ghosted him. did I do something wrong? Lol.
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EuphoricTurtle · 41-45, M
SW by-laws cleary state that by replying to a message is equivalent to consenting to an intimate relationship and sharing details of your life (even as a favour) constitutes a marriage proposal.

..you left him at the altar 😭
hard to say .. dont take offence for he might not knows what in your life keeping you busy.. so let it go.. you dont know me and yet if i dont hear from you tomorrow i would not be offended. we are both new and learning.. so play nice. even if the other one does not
CallistaSloane · 31-35, F
@markansas I'm not offended. HE seemed to be...and I really don't understand what the fuss is about. Lol.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
He’s probably more annoyed he was talking to you and you never got him to that sweet spot after talking to you to make you feel comfortable to do so.
SW-User
No you didn't do anything wrong. You don't owe strangers online anything. It's a form of manipulation don't let them play that game with you.
NotJamieM · 46-50, M
Not at all. Like you say,you can't be in here all the time.
What? That's crazy. How can you take a day of conversation so seriously..he needs help.
CallistaSloane · 31-35, F
@aaaabbbb Seriously! Lol!
@CallistaSloane that guy has issues. Lol
CallistaSloane · 31-35, F
@aaaabbbb Well, it must have been good to have exited early. :P
Yeah some guys get real clingy like that. It's his problem, not yours.
CallistaSloane · 31-35, F
@BlondilyOld I think so, too :P
RebelFox · 36-40, F
No! Some of these dudes act like youre shit if you dont give them your explicit attention.
CallistaSloane · 31-35, F
@RebelFox Agree!

 
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