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SW-User
A lot of how we see and judge others is because of how we view things.
We are sometimes taught what is good and bad, even for how we dress.
How I judge a person may define me. How a person dresses will define them.
I'm just not sure what it defines about me.....
Edit... natural born looks is no way to judge a person, even for a beauty pageant, yet.... that's what we're taught with judging for beauty.
I prefer to get to know someone... what's in a heart and mind.
We are sometimes taught what is good and bad, even for how we dress.
How I judge a person may define me. How a person dresses will define them.
I'm just not sure what it defines about me.....
Edit... natural born looks is no way to judge a person, even for a beauty pageant, yet.... that's what we're taught with judging for beauty.
I prefer to get to know someone... what's in a heart and mind.
CodyCode · 36-40, M
@SW-User Perhaps how we see ourselves might also become a factor in the equation of seeing others.
I like how you think.
I like how you think.
SW-User
@CodyCode Thank you. I appreciate your thoughts on it all. :)
CodyCode · 36-40, M
@SW-User Back at ya. 🙂
QueenOfTheNerds · 41-45, F
Your own judgment about others only defines you. Judging a person only by his or her outward appearance is cheating both people involved. Looks may fade, but a beautiful soul will not.
CodyCode · 36-40, M
@QueenOfTheNerds I agree. Nicely spoken on your part.
QueenOfTheNerds · 41-45, F
@CodyCode Thank you.
SW-User
I've never cared for ones looks
.I'm not shallow
.I'm not shallow
CodyCode · 36-40, M
@SW-User The deep end of any given pond is best, I agree.
SW-User
@CodyCode I like to dig deep
CodyCode · 36-40, M
@SW-User Me too.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
It would define us.
You can't know anything by looks.
You can't know anything by looks.
CodyCode · 36-40, M
@Justmeraeagain Absolutely.
Stopmakingsense · 56-60, F
In both my old countries, self definition is still my exclusive right. I'm sticking with that-. It must be my right.
Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M
Yes, it defines who you are. Looks don't mean anything.
CodyCode · 36-40, M
@Manfredthemanic I agree
Definitely define who you are. Always look deeper.
CodyCode · 36-40, M
@Mindfulness Skin deep only carries little weight, for sure.
SW-User
I judge people much more on their actions
CodyCode · 36-40, M
@SW-User What we do is more powerful than what we say. Absolutely.
SW-User
It would say more about you.
Do you talk to yourself about yourself a lot? Cause it seems so
bijouxbroussard · F
Definitely the latter. The adage of “not judging a book by its cover” makes a lot of sense.
CodyCode · 36-40, M
@bijouxbroussard I agree. Book covers can be tricky to navigate.