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Developing feelings for a friend is one of the worst things

.. But I can’t tell if I’m really developing feelings or if my hormones are just out of wack, pfft. To elaborate, my period cycle has changed a lot recently, so I don’t know if the hormones have as well (it certainly feels like it), so then it’s possible that this is just a phase. I can’t really tell though, which sucks, and it’s made worse because I don’t want to have feelings for them. I don’t want to ruin the friendship because it means too much to me.
Just give it more time. I understand your haste to want the answer now. But I’m sure as you calmly reflect in time your true feelings will be made known to you.
Sorceress · 18-21, F
That’s a good point.. it’s just troubling to me. I’ll try to wait it out [@1189034,Seventeen]
[@797226,Sorceress] I think things will work out for you in the end. Regardless of which way they may turn.

Maybe try spending some time apart from them for awhile to help you see how you feel.
Sorceress · 18-21, F
They’re an online friend, sigh. But yeah, I could probably take a break from contact for a little bit [@1189034,Seventeen]
Sorceress · 18-21, F
I considered including a “TMI” warning for this, but I think we should be mature enough to handle the topic of menstrual cycles.
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
Tread with caution
Sorceress · 18-21, F
Oh no, why do you say that? :’) [@9520,vetguy1991]
Sorceress · 18-21, F
Either way, I intend to do so. ^^’ [@9520,vetguy1991]
Sorceress · 18-21, F
Maybe this all sounds silly, but I’ve felt happier as well and I have no idea what the hell is going on with me. It feels like it came out of nowhere. So maybe it’s wonky hormones making me feel attracted and then the attraction making me feel happier.. either way, what a mess.
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, FVIP
Aww don't be too hard on yourself.. I think we are kinda predisposed to developing feelings for someone we are close to.. it's very hard to stop that happening..
Sorceress · 18-21, F
[@7167,Adaydreambeliever] I don’t know if it’s just a hormonal change though? A mix of things, brought on by getting a little older and the body changing? Thank you for your input nonetheless. (‘:
Just practice some control. Tel yourself you don’t like them enough and eventually your mind will believe it.
Coppercoil · M
You're screwed have fun with the sorrow to come 💔
Sorceress · 18-21, F
Don’t tell me that :’P [@58876,Coppercoil]
Coppercoil · M
[@797226,Sorceress] R.I.P. ☠️⚰️

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