Given my luck, do you think I should ask a girl I like to go to the cinema with me? A friend of...

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Given my luck, do you think I should ask a girl I like to go to the cinema with me?

A friend of mine here is encouraging me, but I'm a little scared. What do I say?

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Nic1202 · 18-21, F

Do it, don’t ask don’t get, if it doesn’t work move on.

GirlPower · 26-30, F

Ask her while at the same time being convinced she'll likely say no. This helps you to relax and maybe you'll be surprised.

The best thing to say is "Hi _____, I'm going to _____ movie on _____ night, and you're welcome to join me." Be sure to smile a lot and don't fidget.

Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M

@GirlPower I hope she doesn't say no, but I'm not sure. How do I start?

GirlPower · 26-30, F

@Manfredthemanic See my expanded answer.

Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M

@GirlPower Thank you. 😊 I will try. I do fidgeted a lot, but I will try not to and make eye contact.

mondayschild2 · F

Start a casual conversation then ask. Build your confidence up.Wait until she is alone.She will probably be thrilled. There should be some good Halloween movies out about now. You don't have to see a horror. Ask her what she likes.

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Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M

@mondayschild2 Well I can try. 🙈

mondayschild2 · F

@Manfredthemanic it might take a little practice. How old are you?

Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M

@mondayschild2 I'm 14.

octoberthesixth · 26-30, F

do it. as I believe your intention is pure.

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Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M

@octoberthesixth I will. I think I will be upset if she tells me no. 🙈

octoberthesixth · 26-30, F

@Manfredthemanic you shouldn't be, girls like playing hard to get at times :D

Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M

@octoberthesixth That's silly. 🙈😮

SW-User

Definitely. Just say that you are going to see a particular film and ask her if she would like to come with you. The worst that can happen is that she will say no, and that really is nothing to get too upset about 🙂

Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M

@SW-User I know, but it would still hurt me if she said no. 🙈
I get picked on at school and I'm afraid it would make it worse.
I will still ask though. I just hope she likes me for me.

SW-User

@Manfredthemanic Going to a film is a perfectly natural thing to do 🙂 Just try to be yourself when you ask her. If she doesn't want to go, I'm sure she's not going to say bad things about you 🙂