would you be friends with someone who is perpetually unemployed?

@Adaydreambeliever usually these type of people (who avoid getting a job or staying in a job) tend to have personal issues, would you agree?

@octoberthesixth Agree

@octoberthesixth No, I wouldn't agree I'm afraid because they aren't 'types of people' they are just people, human beings, each with their own unique stories. and it's not for us to judge their life or their reasons.

Take me for instance.. I don't have a job, don't want a job, happy without a job.. does that make me one of your 'types' -well no, I am self-employed.. but thats the point there are a million different reasons why someone might not have a job..

But even if they just didn't want a job.. that doesn't invalidate them as a human being - they'd still be someone I'd be happy to talk to and be friends with

@mysoulsays yea lots of people think that way.... it's called being judgemental

@Adaydreambeliever Well am saying out of my own personal experience of my cousin and friend, also if I had been judgemental then I wouldn't have been friends with unemployed people

@Adaydreambeliever no, this is not a reason to invalidate someone of course