Just a thought

One has to wonder about others that will put down a complete stranger just to make themselves feel good. Can't we just try lifting each other up instead? Do we have to be petty and spread hate? It's so much easier to spread love.

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Nunlover

love is easy but I'd rather honesty than fake love, maybe my opinion isn't what someone wants to hear but I'm not gonna lie to make someone feel better. if they dont like that then they know how to block.

Mellownai · 41-45, F

@Nunlover you can be honest and still spread the love. One doesn't have to put others down to be honest with them. I don't lie but I don't hurt others needlessly either.

DrWatson · 70-79, M

@Nunlover It is possible to love someone and tell them what they do not want to hear. Love is not always a matter of warm fuzzies.

Nunlover

@Mellownai if the honesty isnt what they want to hear then it will upset them

Mellownai · 41-45, F

@Nunlover love is love. Its all about how you word it. Honesty is important but so is taking someone's feelings into consideration when giving them said honesty.

Nunlover

@Mellownai so lie and make them feel good, I get it but that's not me.

Mellownai · 41-45, F

@Nunlover did I say lie? No please do not put words into my mouth. That's not very honest of you. No I said take others feelings into consideration but still remain honest. Words have power. They can end lives as well as save them.

Nunlover

@Mellownai what you are saying is if Im being honest and that hurts some one then I shouldn't be honest. is that correct?

Mellownai · 41-45, F

@Nunlover not even remotely. I am saying if you are being honest and you hurt someone think about the way you said it. Tell me, what is your need to put words into my mouth or twist what I am saying to justify yourself?

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Mellownai · 41-45, F

@Nunlover I feel sorry for you to be filled with such malice towards others.

Nunlover

@Mellownai dont be sorry for me, take a look in the mirror. my life ain't a lie and my friends are honest, sorry you got hurt by others but that's life. dont blame it on others, you fell for it so it's on you .