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SW-User
I've had to accept some help in order to survive. I'm aware of my loss of value in society because of it and keep to myself.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
@SW-User we do what needs to be done.
Punches · 46-50, F
@SW-User A person's value is way more than just their financial status.
Plus, there isn't a single person out there who would reject assistance if they really needed it.
Plus, there isn't a single person out there who would reject assistance if they really needed it.

SW-User
@Punches Financial and career status = value where I live. It could be the area, but from what I read in the news the attitude is spreading everywhere.
Punches · 46-50, F
@SW-User I do not know where you live of course but I imagine the attitude of status = value might be more prevalent in "well off" areas.
I am just saying that just because someone doesn't have a lot, it doesn't mean they need to feel worthless or seclude themselves from society.
People have more to offer than what their bank account says.
I am just saying that just because someone doesn't have a lot, it doesn't mean they need to feel worthless or seclude themselves from society.
People have more to offer than what their bank account says.

SW-User
@Punches I agree with you; just wish more people felt that way.
Punches · 46-50, F
@SW-User I think if someone has had to struggle at some point in life, they are more empathetic about the situation.
I have been there too.
I have been there too.

SW-User
@Punches Definitely. Experience is an eye opener and an attitude changer.
Punches · 46-50, F
@SW-User People sometimes mock others' struggles without realizing they may be in the same spot someday.
Life has not-so-kindly taught me that lesson a few times.
Life has not-so-kindly taught me that lesson a few times.

SW-User
@Punches I was raised by people who mock in that way. It always made me uncomfortable, even before I learned through experience.