So all these younger people that want a relationship with someone way older than them are people who didn't have a mother or father figures in their

I grew up without parents and I ain’t no granny snatcher…don’t be letting them use that excuse

Incorrect. Age means little to some, and relationships formed via the internet are even blinder to social mores about age.

no, your generation of men just sucks and has no work ethic or ambition and all you want to do is bum on moms couch and cry that minimum wage doesn't pay enough while you work a part time job at mcdonalds.

and we recognize that and want to be with someone who actually wants to do something with their life other than play victim

Well in actual fact there are WAY less of those than people would like to think. it is not the norm, it's only ever been a relative very small proportion. Even more so when we are talking about an actual relationship.. more often than not it's not that we are talking about.
Younger men are known for going through a period of wanting to meet older women.. it tends not to be a relationship they are seeking! Younger women may well like older men and perhaps would like a relationship, but the older man tend to be looking for something else.

Aside from that. No, most or many of these relative few do not all, or even necessarily have past mother/father issues

It's about the maturity level, what they seek out of life/relationships, rather than a mommy/daddy complex. Age may play a part in compatibility, but sometime it does not.

ridiculous generalisation...

Not necessarily. I have family members who married people that are much older, and I don't think it is a reflection at all upon their parents.

Submissives wanting dominate

Says whom?

Not true

Some of them just like wrinkles