If You really are an Atheist. Why do you still cry out to God when times get tough?

Rudeness takes all forms and shapes and so does kindness
Language is debased and all of us engage in sloppy language regardless of our self-perceived morality

Better not to talk so much, that goes for everyone.

The modern hip Thomas Merton knew about that, spent years in a silence-monastary.
Better though to bring that monastary into real life and all should think more before talking.

But its not really a religious thing. Just a better-humanity thing, and with that we are all still in kindergarten.

And that said I'll say this again. Religious people don't hold a corner on morality and the hypocrisy is boring and sad.

The WORDS are not the reality just as the finger pointing at the moon
is not the MOON! Even Jebus preached that stuff.