The barrista in Starbucks just smiled at me and wrote his number on my Americano with soy milk

I am not happy😡 I don't go to Starbucks for that type of thing and now I'll be dead anxious about going in there again. Also he has tattoos😑

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Graylight · 51-55, F

Next time you go in - and you should - make sure to hand him a bill with "not interested" written on it in marker.

IndigoSavage · 22-25, F

@Graylight ha! But I'm not brave enough 😞

Graylight · 51-55, F

@IndigoSavage Me, either. I'd probably just switch to Dunkin'.

But it's a good exercise to not allow yourself to be influenced by others' behavior too much. This guy, though I'm sure he's great, is a guy in a coffee shop - it might be good, safe venue to practice declining men politely. There are 3 1/2 billion men on this planet and almost all of them will hit on you sooner or later. Remember that you hold the cards. 😉