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When you’re so in love with your boyfriend but his dick doesn’t do it for you anymore

How do I go about upgrading his dick? Don’t wanna upgrade anything else about him though 🤔🤣
BoobooSnafu Best Comment
If his dick did it before, it can do it again .

Good sex is a two way street.
You both need to get back to connecting deeper .

Sex should get better , not worse, with a partner.

Maybe just try some good ole fashioned communication?
[@350889,lucetta12] ahhh...yes, well...that's different .

But still.....there must be a reason for his change.

The tedium and effort of life, work , and its boring repeated cycle can wear us down.

Can you do something like a date night?...make it seem more special again ?

Have you guys gotten into a second routine?...that can take the zing out of it. may,just get back to what I said before...good old fashioned communication.

Maybe you could talk a bout fantasies , sexy things you'd like to try .
Role playing?
Maybe his interest has waned because of things not even related to sex.
He could be under pressure at work might be tight ,he could be just suffering from tiredness.

Talk .
People can hide so many worries and fears inside may be something you can help him overcome, or even make you guys closer.
lucetta12 · 31-35, F
[@710185,BoobooSnafu] Thanks. Some good tips here. He has been stressed lately with work.
Spaceshipcaptain · 41-45, M
[@710185,BoobooSnafu] This is such an amazing answer you have covered so many things with very little.

If you want a man to put it down on ya, then you might want to make sure he knows that he is wanted sexually and also tell him how he turns you on and let him know what makes him attractive to you. It takes two to tango💅
lucetta12 · 31-35, F
[@465377,SweetNSassy] Yes but only one wants to fuck.
Eyeamhere · F
Let him use his mouth
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
Maybe ride his face more, has something changed does he drink or smoke?
lucetta12 · 31-35, F
[@1062793,BackyardShaman] 😂. He smokes
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
You need a FWB as well as a boyfriend so your sexual desires are satisfied.
Viper · M
1) try it in a smaller hole,
2) teach him to get you off using something other than his dick
3) Stop expecting him to get you off if #2 doesn't work, and maybe you'll ha e to get yourself off.
Viper · M
[@350889,lucetta12] Well either #1 or you're out of luck.

Which is why guys focus on the D so much and women don't understand why.
lucetta12 · 31-35, F
[@800884,Viper] Like my ear? Dick is the only thing. Otherwise I’d go and fuck a woman
Viper · M
[@350889,lucetta12] or your butt... but yeah if he can fit in your ear or nose, go for those too!
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
Finish yourself off!
lucetta12 · 31-35, F
[@516864,ozgirl512] I’ll tell that to him too
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
[@350889,lucetta12] that'll work lol
OzDiver · 61-69, M
Get him to work on his tongue game? 🤔
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
Time to get creative in bed maybe
Train him.
Signals · M
Was it insufficient when y’all first met or has it always been insufficient?
How much foreplay does he willingly give?
lucetta12 · 31-35, F
[@1148565,Frequencys] It was really good at first. Not he’s less interested in sex
Signals · M
[@350889,lucetta12] I’m so sorry
He needs to wake up
goodlil666 · 51-55, M
You can always call me, I am an experienced white bull, more than willing and ready to step up to the plate and launch one out of the park.
swirlie · 31-35, F
Buy him a dick weight-lifting program at the gym, where his dick can build mass without the use of steroids.[/c]
mad205039 · 36-40, M
does he have a small one?...r maybe he doesn't know how to use it!
lucetta12 · 31-35, F
[@122196,mad205039] It’s not small but it’s not big. I’m not with him anymore.
MrSmooTh · 26-30, M
Maybe like not have sex for a while then when you do it again everything feels amazing.
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
Can you borrow one from a friend?
Pretzel · 61-69, M
get him to wear a strap on?
funtravler · 36-40, F
Is it big???

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