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Would you marry someone who makes you fall in love with yourself, makes your life meaningful and is always there for you like best friend?

Soossie Best Comment
I already have...
helenS · 31-35, F
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Interesting question.
1- I already love myself, I do not need or want a man to play that role, not needed. 2- I do not want or need a man/partner to give my life meaning, it already has much meaning.
3- To "always be there" for me may seem a little clingy.

I've been married twice; had ONE "first love" that I returned to much later. I've never seen or expected my husband to fulfill these conditions in my life.

I propose:
I will only marry a man who has a full and wonderful life,
who loves himself and does not need me to "make it complete"
but he wants to honestly and wholeheartedly SHARE all he is with me
and LOVES who I am; not how much money I make and how I love him.

I must be the woman that he doesn't just "want to live with"
b[b]ut the ONE he can't live without.
[/b]The one that does not need him to complete, heal or fulfill ME
but to [b]bring to my life, his life. [/b]
[b]We will share a LOVE and be best friends.[/b]
summersong · F
A unicorn? Absolutely 😌
helenS · 31-35, F
Why marry him? It would be all fine anyway.
[@6602,helenS] I know someone who used to think like this and married that guy 10 years later, after the marriage she found out that he secretly loved her but it was kept a secret because he didn't wanna lose a her.
Fairydust · F
Sounds a good one 😌
I already did...
PhpPhoenix · 31-35, M
Adogslife · 61-69, M
Add has a good job, is good in bed, is mentally stable and intelligent and we’re starting to get warm. 😉
everyoneknows · 31-35, T
im against marriage and procreation
[@1202007,everyoneknows] oh
Casheyane · 26-30, F
If he could make me fall in love with him
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
No. Because that wouldn't be a lover.
Unlearn · 36-40, M
[@6118,Unlearn] why not? scared of losing a friend?
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[@795077,DeadFairy] unrelated question, why is fairy dead?
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[@1019539,mysteryespresso] but I've already answered that question 😌
[@795077,DeadFairy] yes you have

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