What is something you always wanted to do?
I always wanted to jump off into a crowd of people and they carry me above their arms like they do in the concerts.
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With crowd surving I've often wondered whether people get groped. 😅
Not sure what I want to do new anymore. Had a chance at archery some years back. Had a wrong technique and that did make it less fun. 😅
Not sure what I want to do new anymore. Had a chance at archery some years back. Had a wrong technique and that did make it less fun. 😅
@Classified they do a little but it’s a bit surreal. lol
@Classified And it’s more a super quick awkward touch, than a full out grope. You’re moving by too quick.
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@JustGoneNow It makes sense people can't do too much, since they need to carry a weight and if they are up to bad they need to be at the right spot. 🤔
Guess the most that will happen normally are frequent accidently inappropriate touches.
Guess the most that will happen normally are frequent accidently inappropriate touches.
@Classified exactly. And girls kind of expected it back in the day. It’s only within the last twenty years where it’s sort of become not okay, to be fondled and sort of sexually groped. There’s things that happened back then, that I totally wouldn’t be okay with now, but it was a much different time.
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@JustGoneNow It's kinda difficult to imagine girls being ok with it at any time. It's still their body. 🤔 I understand there has been a change in culture, but that won't determine everything, I think.
@Classified Not a matter of being okay with it. I never was, but what are you going to do about it... was more the question. Basically nothing was the answer. You didn’t like it but we weren’t really aware of our rights and had to rely on another male, like a boyfriend or husband, to protect us by staking his claim. It was a horrible time to be gay. lol
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@JustGoneNow I'm sorry, that sounds really bad 😥😥
There are still cultures like that today 😥
There are still cultures like that today 😥
@Classified Yup. I sort of still live in one. A very rural, traditional community. My girlfriend are very careful how we express our love for each other publicly. There’s still a lot of homophobia.
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@JustGoneNow Wait, I understand it being more difficult with having a same sex orientation, but a traditional community normally isn't of the groping type. That should happen there less, right? 😮
@Classified For sure. The groping is basically done. It’s the homophobia that I have to deal with now. It’s okay, though. We deal.
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@JustGoneNow Ah sorry, the transition in the conversation from groping to homophobia caught me off guard a bit. 😅
Sounds unpleasant though 😥
Sounds unpleasant though 😥
@Classified It’s my fault. I’m totally ADHD when I talk and it can be a challenge for people. Sorry. lol
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@JustGoneNow No probs, I just lost track a little 😋