I need advice

If you talk to him, Chuck. Start with, exactly what you told us here. Be honest. Tell him you were terrified. And you made it through. Say that this is the little you can help him with from this experience. Tell him that because it was traumatic. There's much that you don’t remember and you’ll give him the little you do. You might be surprised, how healing this will be for you. Sometimes we have to deal through things to fully recover emotionally. This might be a priceless opportunity for you both. He’s scared too, or else he wouldn’t be asking. You’ll give him permission to be scared. Maybe it would have been helpful if you had gotten permission too. I helped you in a time of need and I know you help others to pay it forward. This isn’t much different. Kindness always matters. 🖤