Women want men who can protect them - make them feel safe, physically, emotionally & financially - that's always been our downfall as Black men.

No. That's "your" downfall. Your sorry mindset. Making excuses doesn't change anything. You're giving others too much power over you. Most Men take care of their women. However most marriages don't work for other reasons. Generalizations are for those who have small minds and poor views of themselves. You might wanna pull your pants up and do better. Thank you. 😊