I spent Christmas and new year in hospital

@LadyGrace 🤗 awww what happened LadyGrace?

@LeaDhelani I was rushed to hospital for kidney stones then Christmas morning has surgery and had a monster of a surgeon which was really rough with me and hurt me badly. Then had to fight Covid on top of that.

I really hate that you were attacked and so hurt. Like you, I've had no help whatsoever and have had to do everything by myself, so I know how rough it's been on you. May I include you in my prayers? If not, I understand. Love you.

@LadyGrace ohhh yes please do! And will include you in mine 🙏 thank you LadyGrace. Yeah it was rough in that first week home. At least at the hospital I had painkillers or was surrounded by nurturing nurses. I had home visits twice a week as thry were worried about my mental state but yeah it wasn't easy! How do you feel now? Monster surgeon 😖😡

@LeaDhelani Thank you so much. I'll definitely include you in my prayers. I'm sure you can appreciate what I'm about to say. Though I didn't have one person even coming to help me and I have never suffered pain like that in my entire life. I read the reviews on this so-called doctor online, and monster is a gentle word for this idiot. He has no business practicing medicine. He hurt me terribly and then it seemed he was making fun of me for screaming in pain. I wish he had been on my end and been treated that roughly and see how he would have reacted. I told my doctor about it and boy was he fuming. I'm just hoping and praying that he did not damage me. I'm sure you know it's been a rough road and it does take time to heal. I'm just now starting to get my strength back and doing quite well. But I think I'm going to have to have an x-ray of that side he worked on. He better hope he did not damage me. I had very sharp pains there this morning but I'm hoping maybe it was just air trapped up in there but it didn't seem like it but nonetheless God loves us and he's going to heal us and I believe you're going to be just fine. If you ever need to talk my friend, please feel free to pm me. I know what mental abuse is as I have suffered much from it in my past. I may not be able to help you but at least please know I'm here to listen and that alone, seems very relieving at times. I wish there was more I could do for you and come help you and everything. I would cook for you and take care of you but rest assured I'm here for you and I will be praying for you.

@LeaDhelani And get this. That doctor did not even send me home with antibiotics or pain medicine. I had to drive myself home, 70 mi away. I happened to have some of that left over from the hospital when I went in so I was thankful to have that.

@LadyGrace I am speechless❤ God is great! Thank you

@LadyGrace You gotta do something about this doctor? Honestly!

@LeaDhelani it would be my word against his and I would have to prove it. I don't know that I could but I did write a horrible review about him on doctors.com reviews where people write in and give different reviews about how they were treated by their doctor. This guy did not even check on me after surgery he came by in the emergency room and talk to everyone but me. I'm telling you he walked right past me and he knew I was there. There's no way the man could not have known because he attended the person next to me and across the hall from that guy which was a few steps and then he went to the left and counseled with the lady right in front of me, and did not even look at me and in fact, he did not even want to remove one of my stones and he was upset cuz I made him take them both out. What a jerk! He did not even talk to me after surgery, to see how I was doing after he ripped through my bladder with that camera as fast as he could. I tell you, the pain was so bad, it made my shoulder replacement surgery look like child's play. This doctor really needs to be reprimanded and his license taken away.