How much money should you spend on a date?

I say 30-100 bucks depending on how much you like her lmao

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Miram · 31-35, F

It depends on your own capability. Zero is also fine for some people and it doesn't necessarily correlate with the chemistry.

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@Miram I'd only accept a "free" date if it were like date number 5. It better not be the first date😆

LoveTriumphsOverHate · 36-40, M

@iamnikki Sometimes, it's better not to let the man pay. Some men will expect something in return.

NoahB · 31-35, M

@iamnikki yeah if your chill with a first date costing "zero" dollars. youre not really "dating" in the traditional sense imo lol. you're well-established friends transitioning into dating. different circumstance

Miram · 31-35, F

@iamnikki I am uncomfortable with others paying anything for me. Another reason I prefer handmade gifts.

I usually make more money than my company and I also have unresolved related problems. It brings me a negative feeling when a man offers to pay. I won't go into it in details, lolz. But I let it slide and ignore it when it's new person and doesn't know me much.

If it were up to me, in a first date, we would cook together and take our food somewhere in nature.

NoahB · 31-35, M

@Miram you sound like a pleasant person to date

Gangstress · 41-45, F

@Miram spot on!

Miram · 31-35, F

@NoahB Only sometimes, lmao.

BlueVeins · 22-25

@Miram How would you feel about novelty gifts (i.e. bacon band-aids, foreign snacks, laptop stickers)? Just curious.

Miram · 31-35, F

@BlueVeins I don't like them. I am pretty simple person, haha. I like things to be purposeful and of a reasonable price.

Just to mention, I would never put down anyone for their choice of gifts. I know c'est le geste qui compte.