Have you ever had to break someone who loves you?

Help. I hate this.

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SW-User

He didn't love me. I loved him and he broke up with me.

kookaburraman72 · M

@SW-User I'm sorry that happened.

SW-User

@kookaburraman72 thanks. It's taken me 6 months and I'm still struggling to get over him.

LAlexV · M

@SW-User Six months isn’t too long in the end. I’m so sorry you’re hurting, but remember now you have gained another filter the next one has to make it through. There’s an end there and with every one willing to end it you get closer to one who can’t imagine ever doing it.

SW-User

@LAlexV 🙂 seems like I should be able to get over him quickly since he has treated me so badly. But I don't know it's still hard.

LAlexV · M

@SW-User Damn. Let it be. Love and time don’t go together. Allow yourself this process. One of my therapists one told me to stop “shoulding” all over myself. You earned your pain.