If someone has been through a lot of negative things they won't have the friendliest attitudes right?

No, not everyone is bitter about a lot of negative life experiences.

Some people won't allow life to get on top of them.

Nah .... it’s the opposite with me personally. I’ve been hurt before and it’s made me feel fragile .... I welcomed kindness .... craved it x

Not for sometime anyway. Prove to them you're trustworthy and they'll come around.

No I don't think that's right, you don't have to go through much to have a bad attitude.

That's not a rule.

Hmmmm not necessarily. Sometimes it’s the opposite. It’s odd how the same experience can traumatize some people in to silent kind subservient people and others to cruel vicious power hungry monsters. And of course there’s everything in between.

Not true at all