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So when it comes discussing threesomes

Why is it okay for a man in a relationship to have a threesome with two women but when a woman ask can she bring another guy it’s look at different?

Like I can’t have my cake and eat it too? I told my boyfriend we can have a threesome but when I brought up with a female he was cool but then I was like with another man he didn’t like it ? How can I convince him to like it ?
JFinch · 41-45, F
If he wants two girls, you get two guys. Both or neither.
YoungPoet345 · 26-30, F
Because a lot of guys are not comfortable with other men sexually unless they are gay or bisexual. They probably have fantasies about two girls, but the thought of another guy makes them sick to their stomach. If they are straight.
SW-User
Honestly threesome is disgusting..atleast to me ,doesnt it weaken a relationship ? Its equal to cheating or being unfaithful .just my view .
Crazywaterspring · 61-69, M
MFM? All must be friends. Ironclad boundries, like the men will NOT touch each other if both identify as straight.

It can be done.
doesn't much matter what anyone thinks other than your bf on that matter. talk to him
ThoughtfulandSincere · 41-45, F
Yeah true I just wanted an opinion on why though. @BiasForAction
That’s an easy one. He doesn’t want to compete with another man. And possibly as a straight man doesn’t want another man in his bed. Of course another woman would be fine, from that perspective. 🙄
@bijouxbroussard correct assessment
Northwest · M
@bijouxbroussard Sounds right.
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Salix75 · 46-50, F
Double standards and fragile masculinity 🙄
jim2439 · 61-69, M
go some ware or find a guy that he doesnt know and wont see again that may help ,cuz he doesnt want to meet up with the guy some ware and have him tell all his friends that he had you
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
Doesn’t he want to see you totally satisfied?
ThoughtfulandSincere · 41-45, F
I would hope @DownTheStreet
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Was once in an MFM. So it does happen. 🤷‍♂️

Convincing is not going to happen though if he is not open. Like trying to change religions.
ThoughtfulandSincere · 41-45, F
It’s crazy because I was open to a mmf threesome though @DeWayfarer
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@ThoughtfulandSincere if you don't swing that way you don't swing that way! Like convincing an orange to be a rock! Why should it when it has the option to propagate via it's seeds? A rock has no options at all. 🤷‍♂️
goliathtree · 56-60, M
So long as you remember it is MFM in that order and that incidental contact is not considered sword play all should be good.
Keeper · M
Adding a third should be fun, man or women.

 
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