@SW-User right!

@Wiseacre some, definitely. I had a friend request from someone here. I asked her why she wanted to be friends & she admitted to wanting to increase her numbers. she blocked me to F off when I told she would stay in the followers list. I'm only inyterested in quality friends.

@Elevatorpitches thankyou, you are obviously very accepting. It's a real strength.

@nowic2 I am not sure I have any strengths but ty for the compliment

@Elevatorpitches you undersell yourself. You have managed to wend your way to this point in life. Not all of it was accidental. You have also survived the rigors of SW. Speaks for itself re survival skills.

@Loretta78 Thank you. I wonder about some peoples idea of friendship. On line it is just too superficial for me. Friendship to me is about knowing someone. Knowing they will be there for & with you long term. Knowing they are trustworthy & loyal. Knowing that it is a mutual, long term connection. That takes time to develop. You don't make good friends in one click.

I hope you can find someone you can trust enough to be the authentic you with.
😊

@nowic2 This never won´t happen again.

I have had over the years 6 good online friends, and ALL of them disappeared step by step without saying just goodbye.

The last friend was a very special one. I have lost him three weeks ago - after 6 years of a very closed friendship and daily contact. During all those years we never had any argue or disagreement. We have shared so many things. And even he just disappeared - without saying just goodbye or ANYTHING.

So how can I trust still someone when even 6 years are not enough to know someone?

Well, I agree 100 % with your definition of friendship.

But because of my bad experiences I am not more here to find friends. I am just still here to write some stupid stuff from time to time when I have nothing better to do and to disappear again. 😐