How can you accept your darknesses when that would mean the very bad things would be even more apart of u?

I've addressed all aspects of myself, and it's only from doing that, that I was able to see where I needed to change, and appreciate that change was only possible through truth and acknowledgment of the entire picture which is me. Although I have a darker side, I choose to bring out the light. Although I've walked in darkness , I'm not defined by it . There are many components that make up each individual. Nobody is all this or all that.