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How soon before you contact a person after they give you there number?

So do you text immediately and say hey it’s me this is my number or do you wait a while and contact them and give them your number in return
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Ksmile14 · F Best Comment
I don't think I'll ever understand the whole you can't text back so soon or you look desperate thing. why does it have to be a game? Do I? Don't I? What if they don't? If you wanna then just do it!

It's stupid.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@Ksmile14 Its not a game but if you gave someone your number and they called you 4 hours later you would (rightly) assume that they probably liked you ALOT.
But, you could be totally wrong. They just might have happened to be really bored that day.

Other people will add further to their assumption about why you have called them so soon. Perhaps you are desperate or very lonely? Do you always do this toward everyone?

These first impressions however false cannot be totally undone.
So many people think it best to err on the side of caution with their timing.
Ksmile14 · F
@REMsleep Maybe so....it still sucks. Why can't people just say what they think?

I'm as bad as anyone but it sucks.