What are your thoughts?

I know it’s not a mans job to be with a woman who needs healing or maybe struggle with insecurities or trust issues, but if he says your insecure and that you may run me off. Is that game to cheat in peace or is that just not the right thing to do if he’s the one. Or should a person go with their gut feeling?

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MushroomFaerie

Yeah hes using you, making you feel even more insecure so he can keep you trapped and get away with anything. If a man knows your insecure he either tells you hes sorry and needs to go for your sake to heal and his or he will decide that he can handle it and will nuture you through to health with love. What you just said is a selfish immature little cunt

ThoughtfulandSincere · 41-45, F

So if he says things like I’m with you but don’t be accusing me of stuff you gone run me off does that mean he’s a cheater? Or plan to when you let your guard down and he breaks your heart @MushroomFaerie

MushroomFaerie

@ThoughtfulandSincere it means hes either already cheating or plans to... Wants to keep his options open and doesnt care about your feelings. You deserve better honey, he's playing emotional games with you and you don't need it

ThoughtfulandSincere · 41-45, F

That’s what I was thinking @MushroomFaerie

MushroomFaerie

@ThoughtfulandSincere if a man has no respect then kick him to the curb, its the most important thing. Its not even just that he doesnt respect you, your not any less its the kind of person HE is, he is a skewed person, he will never be happy either

ThoughtfulandSincere · 41-45, F

Thanks I needed to hear that. I am happy to know I was right this whole time normally we would sleep on the phone he goes into this yeah trust me convo and let your guard down & then says my phone is about to die. If it doesn’t charge I’ll call you in the morning he’s with someone else I’m sure @MushroomFaerie