Share what you want to, but be ready for some that just like to troll and try to stir the pot. Don't take things personal even if someone tries to make it that way, remember they only know what you care to share and even that doesn't mean they know you.
I try not to judge anyone because, as said earlier, I only know what people on here want me to know, whether true or not.
Try to have fun, but not at anyone's expense and kindness and understanding go a long way.
These work of me, but not everyone on here are the same, just find you rhythm. Hope this helps.