I seen a couple who is homeless and I feel bad for them they don’t have anywhere to go

I want to offer them blankets and sanitizer to clean the table they are sleeping on. I don’t have transportation or enough money to pay for lyft to give it to them. Their family is cruel

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Specialyouare · 31-35, F

That is kind of you but we never know the situation. I don’t think any of us have the right to call anyone “cruel”, obviously for murder or torture yes. But we never know who was abusing who.

I have a situation where my parents wanted us daughters to pay the bills for them for 24 years. They never worked and had no illness then. My other sisters always paid the bills. I ran away and said that I was going to pay for my own bills otherwise they just want us to pay their bills forever and it feels weird.... this human nature, boundaries, survival... how much do we give, when do we run, etc.

So I figured it’s best not to say anything as we never truly know the situation, thoughts, and struggles of each individual person. If you want to help, help. If you aren’t able to or don’t want to, everyone has a reason behind their actions so it’s not to judge, in my opinion.