What is appropriate?

Been reading and posting to an interesting individual and was considering sending a private message. They had the following:
Message Introduction
Not here for inappropriate chat, so if that is your intentions....run along

Based on some of their post it was/is difficult to decide where the line of "inappropriate " lies. Such a subjective call

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bijouxbroussard · F

When in doubt, no sex talk unless the person initiates it. What they choose to discuss on the public part of the site may still not be something they want to talk about one on one, until they’re more comfortable.

rfhh1959 · 61-69, M

@bijouxbroussard again their subjects topic were wide and varied so the lines of appropriateness were very blurred imo

bijouxbroussard · F

@rfhh1959 Well, then do what you think is right, and good luck. 👍🏽

rfhh1959 · 61-69, M

@bijouxbroussard I am having fun. I find it amusing that this individual in all likelihood does not want sex chat yet has sexual content but will use imprecise language but would probably be offended if someone did. I am just stirring the pot.

I find it amusing that recently I was in a place that made it a point to read their safe space policy prior to taking a series of classes. Yet no one in the class had an issue with pointing out my age my sex or skin color. I did not tell anyone who did these things they were being hypocritical in my opinion because had I done so I would have been accused of being an old misogynistic white man.

So that is why I find it amusing in here when someone post sexual content on their public page if they choose not to discuss him privately just say so don't use weak word like inappropriate just come out and say what you don't want to talk about privately it's not that hard it's not like any of us will ever meet each other