I know I keep asking but I’m so confused. I’ve never cheated on my ex

And I feel like he cheated on my because I don’t know why we both have a std and neither one of us cheated. I know he cheated on me and he keeps lying about it. I broke up with him because he’s lying he keep trying to say he got it from improper hygiene Leno way you can get 2 diseases in one and your not cheating. He brought that shit into our home. I got a feeling he has been cheating on me. And he’ll never tell the truth becaus he lies about small shit such as drinking. I need closure and I see he’s not real enough to give it to me

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caccoon · 36-40

If you know he cheated, why are you still with him?

NigelDoes · 56-60, M

@caccoon This.

SW-User

@NigelDoes nice to see that ur alive, someone posted that you died in 2018

MrsCurious · 26-30, F

We aren’t together I just can’t sleep because I don’t know rather he did or he didn’t. He’s good at covering it up I guess @caccoon

NigelDoes · 56-60, M

@SW-User Lovely. I feel very much alive. Just haven't been here much.

caccoon · 36-40

@MrsCurious Sorry to hear that. I guess I misread it.

Are you recently broken up?

People do some really shit things. We all do. But you can't control what others do.

I would just focus on seeing a doctor and maintaining your health. Just care about yourself. 💙

MrsCurious · 26-30, F

Yeah I’m good now. I’ve already been twice and I’m clear thank God it’s curable but still he so slick @caccoon

caccoon · 36-40

@MrsCurious Well. He is not slick. He is gross and shitty and to be forgotten.

MrsCurious · 26-30, F

But what’s killing me I don’t have no proof. I don’t know if he is or I’m just plain out stupid in denial if he is or not. I can even think of a day he probably cheated because he is so good at covering up his bullshit. That’s why all of his cars is messing up and he’s having trouble with all of them @caccoon

caccoon · 36-40

@MrsCurious I am sorry, I am glad to hear you're healthy, though. 💙

DreamyCrush · F

@MrsCurious If you know you haven't cheated, and you got a sexually transmitted disease, the only way you can get such a disease is through SEX. So obviously he's having it with someone else. If you have already been treated and are considering getting back with him, if he hasn't been treated, he's just going to give you that disease all over again. Why not just rid yourself of the heartache and doubt and be done with him because he is lying.

MrsCurious · 26-30, F

I figured that and I’m cured. I’m done it hurts because his way of trying to come up with an alibi was he scratch his balls and his hands is dirty and maybe he get it from using other people toilets and I told him if your that nasty I don’t need to be with you @DreamyCrush

DreamyCrush · F

@MrsCurious Even more reason to be rid of him if he thinks you're naive enough to believe that he caught something from a toilet seat. 🙄

MrsCurious · 26-30, F

The doctor even said no it’s sexually transmitted.. and he was like well what if... and was googling stuff ... well his money he just got back from his insurance claim he won’t get that back @DreamyCrush

MrsCurious · 26-30, F

It’s my money now ...

MrsCurious · 26-30, F

look what I found
@DreamyCrush

MrsCurious · 26-30, F

@DreamyCrush

MrsCurious · 26-30, F

So it had to have last month or somewhere in December