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Spitbak · 56-60, M
🤥I love lies!🤥
UpsideOutInsideDown · 36-40, M
PerfectIllusion · 41-45, F
@UpsideOutInsideDown Its easy to do when it involves yourself.
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Perry4444 · 51-55, M
@PerfectIllusion Ditto.
Perry4444 · 51-55, M
CookieCrumbs · F
PerfectIllusion · 41-45, F
@CookieCrumbs I'm glad I'm the complete opposite of those kind of people!
CookieCrumbs · F
@PerfectIllusion Not your fault for believing. Just look at it as an opportunity to learn the lesson. :)
PerfectIllusion · 41-45, F
@CookieCrumbs Absolutely! Live and learn!
JesseInTX · 51-55, M
Making that decision is difficult and it’s difficult to follow through on. But I think it’s better than being even more disappointed when the behavior is repeated which it inevitably will be @PerfectIllusion
PerfectIllusion · 41-45, F
@JesseInTX Its definitely a repeated behavior. Sometimes the offender is just hard to rid yourself of without making some life changes.🤗
Serpico · 51-55, M
We tend to pick people we are attracted to and find attractive (on a subconscious level) traits that attract us. Sometime those are negative traits. So 2 things.... 1. think about what attracts you to liars. 2. understand people lie to give you the air that they are something better than who and what they are. Its all from being brutally insecure. Just my 2 pence.
Serpico · 51-55, M
@PerfectIllusion Sometimes just looking at yourself and why you have patterns with people is the most important place to look first.
PerfectIllusion · 41-45, F
@Serpico I guess I'm just too trusting. Not everyone has the same heart as I do.
Ksmile14 · F
Ive thought about that a lot and I think I still wanna believe people at least until they show me why I shouldn't. I don't wanna be one of those cynical people who doesn't trust anyone. I just don't think I wanna be that negative.
Sorry it happened to you. *hug* 😔
Sorry it happened to you. *hug* 😔
Ksmile14 · F
@PerfectIllusion Same for me. Hurts sometimes but im afraid I'd be hurting my soul if I wasn't a trusting person. 🤗
Ksmile14 · F
@PerfectIllusion Good! 🤗🥰
Anonymartyr · M
It is easier to tell the truth, but people who carry ulterior motives need to lie all the time.
PerfectIllusion · 41-45, F
@Anonymartyr Good point. I guess I just never have ulterior motives.
Anonymartyr · M
@PerfectIllusion My motives are all in the open. I have no need for lying. But it is much easier to tell the truth because the truth is easier to remember than lies. And eventually what you say comes back to you.
PerfectIllusion · 41-45, F
@Anonymartyr And the truth always comes out and you just end up looking like a fool in the end!
Axelerator · 26-30, M
I have great respect for people who try to avoid lying, and think about a great deal myself.
PerfectIllusion · 41-45, F
@Axelerator We've all done it a time or two. I try my best not to.
Axelerator · 26-30, M
@PerfectIllusion For sure. Absolutely everybody lies sometimes. There’s just a huge difference in how often, and what it’s about.
PerfectIllusion · 41-45, F
@Axelerator And if it's at someone else's expense.
Paintedfox · 36-40, F
Being lied to is infuriating, but don't be hard on yourself.
PerfectIllusion · 41-45, F
@Paintedfox Its aggravating. One of these days I'll learn to stop being so trusting!
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
I make my own potential.
PerfectIllusion · 41-45, F
wonderland63893 · 26-30, F
Preach 🤲
PerfectIllusion · 41-45, F
SW-User
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PerfectIllusion · 41-45, F
@SW-User 😞
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BeefySenpie · M
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PerfectIllusion · 41-45, F
@BeefySenpie 👍