when someone says theyll text you after work, but then dont do you initiate conversation or wait for them?

no, once my boss (I had a crush at the time) told me he’d sc me after work and he didn’t. So I didn’t and we never brought it up after

Hell no! I do the happy dance because I don't have to be bothered.

I wait for them to reach out I always feel like I am bothering people

Wait a while then call to make sure they were ok

If I need them, I'll initiate if I don't then...I don't.

Depends on who it is.

No I just wait but that’s just me

I wouldn't text them