If you’re not putting out

But I’m not sure if I could go on with that person, is it not a sacrifice ? @HootyTheNightOwl

@Projecthonest Isn't marriage itself a sacrifice??? You give up freedom to have a partner, no matter what happens after you say your vows.

Most every decision that we make in life involves some sort of sacrifice.

You just have to figure out which is more valuable or practical and go with that.

In my case, i stay here because it is marginally better than life on the streets would be.

@HootyTheNightOwl not necessarily. There’s always honest communication, open relationships, swinging, hot wifing etc etc etc ...
Relationships are not just one dynamic rule.. don’t you know ?!?

@Projecthonest Again, your suggestions still come with sacrifices. Yes, you will get sex those ways, but you still lose out on the security of having just one person in your life (STD's become another possible outcome here, along with insecurity and fighting within your relationship) and there's still the possibility that your partner might not handle it as well in experience as they think they will in their head (Maybe they decline or give it a go, but get insecure down the line).

Affairs are morally wrong because of cheating behind their back, so that one is iff the table for many of us.

Religion can also play a part, too.

@HootyTheNightOwl I totally agree. Cheating is not on my cards either. I disagree with everything to do with it.
I understand that religion is a factor for many, on varying levels.
My other suggestions are only workable in a solid relationship, so yes it is for a few, not the majority.
My suggestions don’t always lead to sacrifice, quite the contrary.

@Projecthonest you are so right. I have done most everything in regards to sex. From cheating, swapping, group, swinging, even having someone drop by my GF wanted to do, let them have there time together. I am very open. Sex is very important to me, I love it I enjoy it and can cum every day....as far as my partner, let her enjoy herself as well, I always wanted to date a bi chick, not so much for my pleasure but for hers. She has the best of both worlds. Sex is something that should be enjoyed, if you don’t enjoy having sex there is something that needs to be addressed. I didn’t say something is wrong with you or your partner. If neither cares then so be it, I will never understand that,