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Is it a bit drastic cutting family out of my life?

I feel like I'm starting to hate them, more each day.
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Nanori · F
no, it's fine, they're draining you
lucetta12 · 36-40, F
@Nanori So true.
SW-User
@Nanori don't you think she is old enough to not get drained. 😅
Nanori · F
@SW-User what does it have to do with age?
SW-User
@Nanori decision making.
Nanori · F
@SW-User 🤦‍♀️ we're always affecte by our family, specially parents, their voice was the first thing we heard when we were born
lucetta12 · 36-40, F
@SW-User I feel like I'm bad at making decisions. I've put up with this for years. It's hard to break that cycle.
Nanori · F
@lucetta12 it's because your family has been only feeding you doubt
SW-User
@Nanori That's true. I have had a rough time. But in this harsh world I only have them to go to go. Because in reality nobody else cares.
SW-User
@lucetta12 You can take a time out from this situation. But also figure out that what is creating the problem between you and them.
lucetta12 · 36-40, F
@Nanori 👌🏻👌🏻 Thanks. 💜
lucetta12 · 36-40, F
@SW-User The problem is they are negative people. I have a brother that's been in and out of jail for years and he's top of their priority. Maybe if I was a criminal, they'd give a shit.
SW-User
@lucetta12 That sucks if they are supporting your brother. Instead of that they should make your brother do things which doesn't gets him into a jail. Negativity is all around us. In your case you are morally affected by there behaviour. Which is affecting you. Best option for you is to get your mind out of negativity. Do things which you like they don't own you. But remember circumstances can change them too. If they think clearly and did some healthy life they can change themselves.