Should you force yourself to go to a social hangout if you’re really not feeling it?

No, don't do it. I learned that a long time ago to just go with your instincts if you don't feel like going there is a reason for it

sometimes the best times are when you least expect them

Yes. But not allllll the time. Don’t cut yourself off from actual people.

Not always. But, it's a good idea if normally you don't go. Keep yourself from becoming an anxious introvert.

Depends on the circumstances. Sometimes you have to do things you really don't want to do. Other times, it's optional.

absolutely NOT! why go there if you are not in the mood?

no unless u've been sticking to ur comfort zone for too long

No, not really, unless your job/life depends on it

No only go if you feel like it so you won't regret it.

yes sometimes you end up having the time of your life

If you think you're going to be miserable and not having fun, don't go, your choice.

It's a delicate balance between yes and no. Don't know if there is a specific situation or just a hypothetical one, so just going by my general thoughts here. You shouldn't constantly force yourself, but it isn't good to always say no either... isolationism is just as bad as wearing yourself out by constantly putting yourself out there when you don't want to. Sometimes, just sometimes, going despite not wanting to can lead to a positive and pleasant evening.