I find it strange I’m the oldest of my sisters and my younger sisters don’t include me in things

They tag each other in statuses and don’t tag me. They buy each other things and don’t buy me anything. The go on trips and don’t invite me. People probably don’t even know we are sisters probably... it’s kind of embarrassing publicly because some people know and I’m sure they probably know what’s going on... we have different fathers they three of them have the same dad. Who mostly raised me but they only call when they want something or if obligated simply because I’d text and say call me. We were separated at youth on the weekends every weekend they got to go to their dads house and I got stuck with the older brothers. And I’m barely close to them because they are close... it hurts 😢 It breaks my heart. I don’t say anything because I’m sure no one will understand or care what I feel or think about it all

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Casheyane · F

Maybe you can open up to them. And maybe you can bond with them, one person at a time. Take it easy. I know it hurts, but you're family. The only way to get closer is to reach out and be yourself. That way, you can show them you're cool and you can earn their respect for who you are.

I'm also feeling a bit distant with my younger cousins. They're near the same age but when they were younger, they really look up to me. Now it feels like they're in a different realm and it requires more effort in my part to try and reach them but still, there's a wall. We can only do what we can. So I'm just being me :)

Regfries · M

Sadly, your story is all too familiar. Probably a lot more common than you realise. And it is heartbreaking. However, the sisters should be told how you feel, otherwise they get no opportunity to put things right. If they still exclude you they will then have made themselves unworthy of your tears.

SW-User

I have two step siblings and two blood siblings. None of us communicate with each other. I could care less. I made my own family and we are close. That's my advice to you if your sisters continute to ignore you. Make your own family and enjoy life!

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