What’s an old fashioned name (or a few) that you like.

No no no, haha. 😂Absolutely not. I came to the conclusion long ago and stand firmly in my decision I am never having kids. 🤷‍♀️@quitwhendone

@Thebestof1995 You are rather young to make that decision. Why not? Are kids too much work?

I’ve known since I was about 13 I’d never have kids, and I honestly feel it’s very well likely because I’m not the type of person that typically is involved in dating or relationships. I’m quite a loner, I’ve only dated twice in my life and don’t have much of an desire to ever do it again. 🤷‍♀️🤔@quitwhendone

@Thebestof1995 Don't you like companionship, intimacy, sex and love?

Do you have Social Anxiety Disorder? Or other anxiety?

I’ve had serious intimacy issues in one form or another since childhood. I have my reasons. It also comes down to the fact I have little faith in men particularly around my own age. I’ve lived a relatively peaceful lifestyle staying single in my early adulthood at present and I feel there is no reason for me to change that.@quitwhendone

@Thebestof1995 I know it's none of my business but you are cheating and shorting yourself. Isolating yourself will cause you serious issues in the long term. I know. I am a lot like you.

I’ve had other people tell me that in a sense, but I don’t see it that way. A person can’t enjoy being in a relationship if they know they scorn affection and intimacy, so I look at is “why bother? Who cares?” @quitwhendone

@Thebestof1995 But that's my point. If you scorn affection and intimacy, you have something deeply wrong with you psychologically. Fortunately, whatever it is can be fixed. It's a long, slow tedious process but it is not only worth doing, not doing it is too costly.

It’s not by any means a problem for me. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I know it sounds pretty bitter, but the way I see it, I don’t understand most people for wanting to find “the one.” As I said, I have no faith in humanity in general, particularly when it comes to romance. It’s a every man or woman for himself world now. Stay single, I'm learning firsthand if you work on yourself and focus on what you need to do to be happier, you’ll be stronger for it. @quitwhendone

@Thebestof1995 Do you not, at least, like sex?

No, not in particular@quitwhendone

@Thebestof1995 You are young. You will grow emotionally. One day, you will begin to understand what I am talking about.

@Thebestof1995 You seem pretty nice. I hope you have a joyful, healthy, full life. I wish you all the best in life. There is no reason you shouldn't have it.

@quitwhendone Nah, she's old enough not to have people tell her she's young and will change her mind later. Plus I've met many middle aged ladies who are happily single their entire lives. Sex is not everyone's cup of tea, and neither is relationship. Some people don't grow a need for companionship. I don't see why it's so hard for you to accept it.

@SW-User Say what you want but lack of intimacy, companionship, trust, sex and love usually takes a toll on people. One need not have each and every one but should have most of those. People who have intimacy problems already have problems. They are normal human needs that need to be met. Yes, everyone is different and she could be one of the few who dont6 have the same basic needs as most other humans but I doubt it. Time will tell.

@quitwhendone 🤷‍♀️ I try not to tell someone how to live their life, especially if they're already content with the way it is. It's rather condescending to say they should live like this and that because everyone else is doing it.

@SW-User That is not what I said at all. You are not understanding me. That's ok. It's too late for a long discussion on the topic.

@quitwhendone If I'm misunderstanding you, my apologies. But that's how I'm seeing it right now.