We all know one of those people. The ones that don’t talk that much, relatively quiet throughout the day. If you’re one of those people, why are you that way?
For me, I feel like there is often a storm inside me, and if I let go and say too much I feel like something bad is gonna happen. I feel like I often offend or irritate people one way another when I speak about anything other than small talk. I don’t know if it’s my tone, or what. Furthermore, I think more people would like me less if I was a more outspoken girl. Maybe that’s an accurate representation, because recently someone at work praised me for never complaining. Is it really a loss not being very outspoken? Oh well. 🤷🏻♀️🤔
Avoidant personality disorder mixed with anxiety and a raging inferiority complex. I gotta fight my brain everyday and convince it that people don’t hate me and they do care about what I have to say. But that’s hard to do, so usually I just stay quiet in my own little world
Maybe you're just not a complainer. I don't really see the point of complaining and pointing out every flaw and negativity. Maybe we're just resilient like that, we let it pass and move on with our day.
