How do I stop feeling hatred for my boyfriend?
I hate him when I think about the horrible things he has done to me. I don’t trust him at all because of it. I want our relationship to be better.
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Mindful · 56-60, F
This is excellent advice. Don’t confuse your feelings of passion. Love is passionate. Hate is passionate. It’s easy to miss passion. But feelings of hate should be a signal that you should break up, let go, and find someone who is already kind and can treat you the way you want to be treated. It’s common for people to be nice when they first meet. Time shows you what a perso. Is really like. If they don’t turn out to be what you thought they were, you kindly explain that and break up. Living with someone with the feeling of hatred is very dangerous.Anger can lead to losing self control and you may end up making each other so angry that one person does something seriously bad.@eerie