My friend is dating a woman from the Philippines. He's never met her in person, but he takes care of her, her kids, and her parents. Would you do that

For a woman you've never met in person ?

I'm not saying she's a gold digger.

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Asm0deus · F

That’s his business if he wants to do that tho. Just like it’s his money to do as he pleases.

SW-User

@Asm0deus I agree. He works for the money. That's his business.

Asm0deus · F

But for me. I dunno. I have to really know the person, at least FaceTime etc. but he must known her for a long while to trust her enough to send her money.

The whole online thing is a tricky mistress. @SW-User

SW-User

@Asm0deus But he told me that one time, she asked him, "why do you spend money on your grandkids, they're not your kids?" He said that seemed selfish to him given the fact that he takes care of her kids, and they're not his.

Asm0deus · F

Wow. Yeah that sounds like something that he needs to nip in the bud. He spends money on his grandkids cause that’s his blood and he loves them. He spends money on her kids cause he probably trying to get up in them sugar walls. And yeah I agree with that that is selfish and it’s none of her business how much or if he wants to spend money on his grandkids.

That right there what she told him is a red flag and he needs to run. No coochie or dick is worth it man. @SW-User

SW-User

@Asm0deus lol

Asm0deus · F

I’m fr real man! You cant have someone controlling you like that. She in it for the money and he in it for the coochie.

But if he wants that and he feels it’s worth it. Then that’s all on him. All you can do is be there for him and give advice when he asks.

@SW-User