Would you rather mold someone to your liking or would you rather be with someone with a little potential that is hard to deal with ?

Maybe I'm not understanding, but there doesn't seem to be much difference between those two choices.

I wouldn't want to change someone too much, unless it was for their own betterment and something that he wanted to work on himself.

Challenge is turn on ;-)
I hardly date Goody Goody type of woman . 🤓

I like a challenge. Pliable people bore me.

As is,no return.

Neither

I don’t want to mold anyone. I prefer someone compatible who still has a mind and ideas of his own.