How do you let a guy know you're not interested?
I mean he's a nice guy and all, but i'm not into relationships or anything close to that, just want to focus on uni
Serenitree · F
maybesomeday · 31-35, F
Serenitree · F
floatingintheocean · 41-45, F
maybesomeday · 31-35, F
maybesomeday · 31-35, F
@offingg: "Fuck off."
offingg · 31-35, F
I don't act interested lol
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
Let me rephrase that for you: You are not interested in a relationship with HIM. So now it is correct.
As for your question, simply tell him so. Honesty is the best policy. We men are used to get rejections.
As for your question, simply tell him so. Honesty is the best policy. We men are used to get rejections.
NigelDoes · 61-69, M
Be very straightforward about it in a polite way.
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NigelDoes · 61-69, M
Serenitree has given the best response thus far. :-)
adshaw · 36-40, M
@offingg: You feel he should not talk to you because you didn't want a relationship?
Serenitree · F
@offingg: stop responding. Sometimes people think you're playing hard to get. They think you just enjoy the chase. I think the easiest way to dispel that notion is to say your piece, once. After that you stop responding to texts. Stop answering calls. And if he approaches you in person,,you make it clear that you simply do not have time to talk because you have to get this or that assignment done.
Eventually he'll give up. If he doesn't, you just might find he isn't the great guy you think he is.
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Eventually he'll give up. If he doesn't, you just might find he isn't the great guy you think he is.
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waterman1005 · 56-60, M
Just tell him
waterman1005 · 56-60, M
@offingg: but you've got to get your point across and it may come to that!
LoveChild · 26-30, F
Lie. Say you like somebody else.
offingg · 31-35, F
Oh I like this, I might do this
SW-User
Be straightforward and very clear about it. If his attitude doesn't change, cut him off.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Try it out, maybe you'll find something better than what you have
offingg · 31-35, F
It'll be a waste of time and effort
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@offingg: Perhaps, but what if it isnt? 👀