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ClanNaFiacaillApWythe · 51-55, M
Exactly how old are u?
MrsCurious · 26-30, F
ClanNaFiacaillApWythe · 51-55, M
@MrsCurious You are old enough to know and to make informed well-reasoned judgements. How many such relationships have u had and how many chances have u typically given these unsatisfactory people?
CuriousCuckold · 70-79, M
@ClanNaFiacaillApWythe Relationship failure is never the fault of the person complaining about their relationship failures.
MrsCurious · 26-30, F
Your right I am old enough but sometimes we are so blind to people ways we don’t realize it until we actually analyze like hey I’ve been played or misguided. I’ve been in 3 long term relationships and I don’t think I’ll be with someone for a while now @CuriousCuckold
MrsCurious · 26-30, F
It’s not my fault your right we just don’t think someone who portrays they love us will never do anything to hurt us so we try to build something together and we let that guard down blind to the fact that they aren’t right for us be a people are so fake @CuriousCuckold
CuriousCuckold · 70-79, M
@MrsCurious If you are really between 22 and 25, I am not sure how you could have been in three long term relationships. But, I will believe you.
You have a lot of life ahead of you. Life is full of heartache and disappointment. Perhaps you just need a break. It is normal for a person to avoid relationships after a breakup, so that you don't bring a lot of baggage into another relationship.
Live you life with hope. Take responsibility for your relationship failures. Get on with life because you have a long way to go.
It might also be better for you to get off SW where no one knows you. It may be better to go out and make a real friend to talk about these things.
You have a lot of life ahead of you. Life is full of heartache and disappointment. Perhaps you just need a break. It is normal for a person to avoid relationships after a breakup, so that you don't bring a lot of baggage into another relationship.
Live you life with hope. Take responsibility for your relationship failures. Get on with life because you have a long way to go.
It might also be better for you to get off SW where no one knows you. It may be better to go out and make a real friend to talk about these things.
MrsCurious · 26-30, F
I changed my age I’m actually 27 and I’ve only been in 3 relationship when I was 16 I dated a guy for 5 years had a child. Then when I was 21 I dated someone for 3 years Had a baby and I just got out of a 4 year relationship no kids I only have two kids. @CuriousCuckold
MrsCurious · 26-30, F
I don’t have anyone in my circle that gives any advice most people just listen to me vent and don’t solve or resolve the issue or help me walk the journeys I face
ClanNaFiacaillApWythe · 51-55, M
@MrsCurious Well what actually happened. Did they cheat on you and leave you or did u leave them or what?
ClanNaFiacaillApWythe · 51-55, M
@MrsCurious Are these basically female friends that u have? Are they all youong as u are?
ClanNaFiacaillApWythe · 51-55, M
Oh. I see what happened. You started too young. You went too far too fast too as well as too early. What were the guys and their parents like? What did your parents say?