So I decided to join a dating site tonight. I typed this message to one person.

"I thought I reach out to you based on our compatibility scoring and interest in cycling. I enjoy cycling and would enjoy opportunities to get into mountain biking. There aren't many places nearby where I live. I am an "over the road" or "long haul" trucker. I enjoy the frequent traveling. I'd love to hear some about you in your own words, until then Happy Veteran's Day."

How is that for a message to break the ice? I left where I live and the names.

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helensusanswift · 26-30, F

Straight and to the point. You mention your liking for bikes, but unfortunately say nothing about yourself. Perhaps you could give your age, say if you are single and a little bit about your personality? Cheerful, serious or whatever.

MrAboo · 36-40, M

@helensusanswift I did in other opening messages, but I guess I'm uncomfortable discussing my "personality" seems hard to describe, because I can say I'm quiet and reserved, but can identify moments when I'm more open. I figured it was a given I was single and looking if I was on a dating site.

helensusanswift · 26-30, F

@MrAboo fair comments. I wish you the best of luck.

MrAboo · 36-40, M

@helensusanswift thank you, if you are looking, I’m available.

helensusanswift · 26-30, F

@MrAboo I am happily married, thank you.