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SW-User
I don't think I'll ever get closure, that wound I'll just have to carry with me.
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@SW-User i understand that one xx
SW-User
@RubySoo Sometimes you just have to accept it that's all you can do ((hugs))
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@SW-User yup. But is hard. So hard x
SW-User
@RubySoo I know ☹️
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@SW-User This seems to be a common thing on social online media networks. What you have is a social epidemic. A society filled with broken people. Broken hearts. Broken souls. Broken and misplaced identities. So they have this dysfunctional mindset and have a tendency to leave things undone. It is best to just let people know how you feel and stop hiding from yourself. Stop hiding your true self or nature. Stop hiding who you really are, and be honest and open with those who you consider to be your friends. If only we had a class here where we could teach these broken people how to manage their own life skills, and communicate properly, you would have more fulfilling, long term, relationships on and offline. Any comments. 🙂
SW-User
@Zonuss I absolutely agree with you. I would consider myself somewhat broken but I believe in owning your issues and communicating even if it's uncomfortable.
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@SW-User me too. Thats why i cant get closure when tbe other person decides not to talk....there is nothing at all you can do to make things better.
Just accept.....and it can take a long time. X
Just accept.....and it can take a long time. X
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@SW-User I believe we all have a responsibility and an obligation to stay true to yourself number one. And stay true to those who you deem is important to you. You gave your time and energy to that being. You have no idea how much of a healing it can be if you were to put things into perspective and complete the cycle instead of leaving the door wide open. Closure means you have taken the next step to maturity. 🙂
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@RubySoo Well really if there is no willingness from the other party or recipient than there can never be any true closure. Unless you come to the painful realization that the person was never really your friend to begin with. It has to be some sort of personal revelation that takes place in order for the door or chapter to be closed for good in this book. 😌
MarmeeMarch · M
@RubySoo what a set of melons !!!
SW-User
@RubySoo [quote]its those of us
Who dont hide and are ourselves that get hurt.
Some people dont know how to handle 'real'.[/quote]
Amen
Who dont hide and are ourselves that get hurt.
Some people dont know how to handle 'real'.[/quote]
Amen