I really do not understand the attraction to effeminate or wimpy men. Can someone please explain this attraction. LOL

I think girls who are timid around guys (for whatever reason) feel more comfortable around a less macho guy. I went to college with an attractive gal who hung out with feminine guys. I'm pretty sure they were all straight, they just had feminine styles

I'm in NYC and, for a period of time, I didn't think there were any alpha guys left here. All I saw were these uber betas 😳

When we started having major construction around our building the world started making more sense. LOL

Nope. I don't get it either. I'll take my "toxic" male over any other kind every day of the week! 😈

Sometimes it is just part of a fetish persona and other times I guess it is what it is

A lot of times it is just role play, outside of that secret in control.

sometimes being whimpy is just part of a roleplay fetish

With some it is only that way in role play behind closed doors.

I think for women it's a 'Dom' think ... one woman tried it on me once, she quickly regretted it ... when guys try it, they regret it even quicker

For women, it's a Dom thing

There’s really nothing to explain. People like who they like for a variety of different reasons, and we should respect that

People have different preferences. You're not the center of the Universe.

Does it matter? People like what they like.

Better than a macho guy soaked in toxic masculinity?

You got me
I used to think acting gay made them less of a risk to women
so they allowed them in places like dressing rooms ,,and they opened up to them like a girl friend ,,they were no threat
But when I have girls hitting on my woman ,and men acting like girls

And people say "You are the one with the problem to me "

They need to thank my invisible friend I am good at self control

they aren't it's a lie

Pegger chicks love them I've heard

Not everyone is attracted to the same type of person. It isn't for us to understand.

i dont understand either...... but, maybe thats a good thing. LOL

The same reason that some females Here will friend up the T’s alongside their girlfriends.

I don't think it is something that can be understood. Thinking about an effeminate man makes me want to puke.

i might like them after a period of facing an intense too masculine guy, bring some balance

Not everyone is like you or shares your preferences.

People have different tastes.

Where have you seen it?