is it worth going somewhere far just for dating?

is it worth going somewhere far just to try to find a date?
I want to try speed dating and go on a singles cruises to meet people to date, but I am concerned that my efforts will be money lost. Because I will find someone I like that lives far. I live in a town with a population with less then 4 thousand people center city and all the close towns are equally small so its so difficult for me to meet people to date. I cant afford to move. I have tried online dating. you dont get a lot of clicks when your like me not good looking.

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Funwoman · 51-55, F

What makes you think that you are not good looking. Is that your real pic in your profile?

Girlyfriendcollecting · F

@Funwoman no it isnt, and im not good looking because no one wants to talk to me on dating sites with my real photo. I was just not given good genes, I do not look good as average for my age.

Funwoman · 51-55, F

@Girlyfriendcollecting Attractiveness is not always about physical. Personality and positive attitude have a lot to do with it.

Girlyfriendcollecting · F

@Funwoman yea you dont see any of that online. thats why im trying to stick to meeting people in person at first. I just dont want a long distance relationship. I would be willing to move only if i could afford living there on my own in case i break up.

Funwoman · 51-55, F

@Girlyfriendcollecting Well maybe you should get a job in a bigger town or the city. It's worth trying.

Girlyfriendcollecting · F

@Funwoman I have been trying for years.

Funwoman · 51-55, F

@Girlyfriendcollecting You can't give up. I wish you luck 💓.

Girlyfriendcollecting · F

@Funwoman thank you😄☺️

Funwoman · 51-55, F

@Girlyfriendcollecting welcome 👍