Why do people need drama?

Seriously! I have started a new job which I love. Recently, I found out at my old job (which I quit because the hours were crazy and I didn't like the toxic environment) the ladies (not sure who) said that I said they were losers who weren't going anywhere in life and that they didn't have nice bodies like me. LOL WAT?!! I never said those things ever! I am far from perfect and it just shocked me! Well, at least it wasn't about my work ethic :P

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Elandra77

Women are vicious. They will stab you in the back first chance they get. That will never change. it is part of the collective psyche. Men are much more honest face to face. and behind one's back. But not women. One cannot unbreed cattiness and jealousy.

Just get used to it.

yellowstone

Why are some women like That? What's wrong with them?

Elandra77

@PumpkinSpice: I'd love to dish it off to the easy -and most accepted answer, and that is hormones. BUT--it is MUCH MORE than that! More complicated. I could TRY to explain, but even then I could not touch on it all.

I think there are a lot that have underlying insecurities, perhaps some left over form childhood (or perhaps how another once treated her-even as a little girl) And that those insecurities manifest themselves in a ugly way as adult. But the WAY and the WHY so many are content to gang up on another , regardless of any truth or off the hurt it may cause, is a bit beyond me. Or rather, this post.

yellowstone

@Elandra77: thank you for your thoughts and insights. I get what you're saying.

Elandra77

@PumpkinSpice: You are very welcome. Sorry for the mini essay. (It COULD have been longer! lol) But I try to take time to explain EXACTLY what I am trying to say.

I really wish women were not like this. Or rather, did not feel the NEED to be this way. It's ugly and it can ruin lives.

yellowstone

@Elandra77: agree with you completely. Was harassed and bullied in the workplace for years. Nothing was ever done.