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Are you lonesome tonight?

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th3r0n · 41-45, M
Yes, I suppose that I am.

Not much I can do about it, the woman I want to marry is with someone else and I tried to let go but I can't even keep stable feelings for anyone else.
Sorry for the heartbreak. There’s billions on this planet, you can meet many a person better than she! @th3r0n
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@LukeTheDuke I came to the realization that even if they were better in every way I wouldn't choose them. It's not about that, I don't just want her for selfish reasons, I want to give her everything she never had, and I may die alone waiting for the chance but she's worth it even for the chance
a common feature of heartbreak is believing that you will never ever get over that one person. But you will. You must stop replaying the past and move forward, slowly but surely. You WILL overcome. @th3r0n
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@LukeTheDuke I never got to date her, though there was a time we talked about possibly getting married. She's my best friend, and still good to me.
Move on. She ain’t the only one. Move on. Move on. Move on. If she isn’t reciprocal then it’s not going to happen and you have to accept that, digest that and move on. It’s a part, albeit horrible, of human life that we can’t always get what we want. We then have to make a new beginning, a new hope, a new future. Don’t get stuck on this, confront your feelings, then accept reality and then move on.@th3r0n
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@LukeTheDuke I tried, but realized I will only ever hurt anyone else, because deep down I don't want to be with anyone else.

There have been tons of indications that she does feel something like that for me, but a lot of situations happened. She's trying to persuade herself she's happy with the weak man that she's with, but she's far more depressed than before and doesn't seem to leave the house much, and drinks more.
Ok, will you wait another 5 years, 10 or 15? You really aren’t trying to do yourself a favour. @th3r0n
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@LukeTheDuke I've already accepted the fact that I may die alone, and came to terms with it and I am sincerely able to be ok with it