I couldn't sleep. My mind is running in circles thinking the damnest things so I thought I'd share one of the questions keeping me awake.

If you knew your kindness, gentleness &/or compassion was the reason some people felt they could treat you poorly, ghost you,then show up again and again out of the blue to get their own needs met without a thought for yours, would you do whatever it took to completely delete those qualities from your personality completely? Is it worth that to make sure people know up front not to mistake you for a door mat? What's the answer? Just this past weekend. Another, out of the blue, who left without a word several years ago. Thinks I'm always going to be here to use until he gets bored. Idiot.